October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. At Canopy Center, many of the families we work with have experienced some form of domestic violence. When children are exposed to violence in the home — whether they witness it directly or feel its effects — it can shape how they see the world and their place in it.
Children who live with domestic violence may experience fear, anxiety, or confusion. They might struggle with trust, behavior, or concentration. Some withdraw, while others act out. Over time, these experiences can impact emotional health, learning, and relationships. Understanding these effects allows us to respond with compassion and trauma-informed support, helping children and caregivers rebuild a sense of safety and connection.
Earlier this year, we shared a story about how our Parent to Child program provided a safe and healing space for a family affected by domestic violence. You can read it here: “How Parent to Child Provides Safety for Families.” The story highlights how supervised visitation was a bridge from fear and abuse to safety and connection - giving children a space where they can simply be kids.
The Power and Control Wheel, developed by the Domestic Abuse Intervention Project, shows that abuse is not just physical — it often includes patterns of emotional, financial, and psychological control. Something the mother we wrote about shared, as well. Recognizing these dynamics helps us better support survivors and their children.
Copyright by the Domestic Abuse Intervention Project
During Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we honor the courage of survivors and recommit to helping families heal. Every child deserves safety, stability, and the opportunity to grow up in a home free from violence.
If you or someone you know needs support, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at (800) 799-SAFE (7233) or visit their website. If you are in the Madison area, Domestic Abuse Intervention Services (DAIS) is a local resource. Check out their website, call: (608) 251-4445 or text: (608) 420-4638.
